Hi, hope your well , it’s a pleasant if slightly chilly Sunday afternoon here in Cobh.
Just did little body scan meditation. I find it very relaxing. When I do this I get a sensation of energy or heat on the part of the body I focus on. It is usually quite pleasant. My mind voices claim they do it but I think it’s just me it’s hard to tell (I realize the mind voices are aspects of self but I see it as various minds in one mind). I saw somewhere some monk said he gets same effect from meditation.
So tipping away nicely. Noticed I was writing stories in my head a bit to much lately. I think there are my minds reaction to feeling depressed, I write stories that amuse my self in my mind. I might throw some of these on another blog I do. Just to get them out of my mind. I had to make an effort to control and stop this from happening as if led unchecked I think it leads to a sort of manic high. Which actually feels great but becomes all consuming and eventually burns out and I can get a very low mood after it.
Spend some time this morning just walking in a field with the dog and just stop myself from thinking. I just listen to the birds and watch them. Listen to my footfalls on the grass. Interact with my voices a little but not to much. Feel the breeze on my skin and just notice things around me. I think this is called grounding or mindfulness. It’s quite relaxing I would recommend it to anyone with a busy mind. I also like to disappear in to a video game for a while but again find this all consuming so try to limit this as well.
I meet with my Psychiatrist last Tuesday. We discussed that you don’t so much get withdrawal effects from tapering but you do get an adjustment period from changing your dosage. Sounds like the same way of saying the same thing to me just makes the psychiatrist feel better about herself. Still at least she acknowledges this as GP will acknowledge nothing. I agreed with psychiatrist to leave at current dose until Jan next year and then if all good taper to lower dose. I might continue taper in 3months depending how I fell. I have gone from 50mg injection to 37.5 injection. I am glad I did this, as I no lounger feel like I have an hangover the morning after injection. I did have a reaction to reduction but did not panic as experienced same thing a year ago when adjusted injection from 2 weeks to 3 weeks.
Saw my GP on Friday he kept asking how everything was you could almost tell he wanted me to still be struggling but I was fine. I discussed what the psychiatrist said he once again stated he did not want to adjust dosages. I said he had already made that clear. I still think he is a complete tit. I have survived despite his care which I still consider to have severely hindered my recovery process. The mother asked her GP if she would take me on she said she might give me a call before the end of the year as there is waiting list. It would be nice to change she could not be worse then my current GP who is literally no support in tapering process and if I left him have his way it would never have happened.
I was in work during the week and was interacting with my work colleague. I sat down next to her. I think I was swinging my legs around , I believe she just lightly taped the side of my knee with hers, possibly to bring my attention to it. The second this happened all of my senses shut off , there is not a single thought in my head and all I see is black. I have no clue how long this went on for possibly a few seconds. I come to I am leaning away from the woman I am sitting next too. I felt like a kid, two of my hands are planked in the chair between my legs and I am swinging the chair around like a kid. I continue discussing what’s on the monitor like nothing happened the poor woman looks a bit surprised to say the least but says nothing. I did not think much about it until few days after. I am not sure if should ask work if something happened or not. I think I will but not sure.
I went to a new therapist also during the week , she has training in something called the Maastricht interview. There is a link at bottom of post if your interested. We had a chat and started the process it looks like it suited to people who hear voices so should get something from it.
Work gave me time off to go every 2 weeks as long as I work it back on Saturdays. I said I experience intrusive thoughts to her but did not go in to detail. I have had very bad experiences trying to explain this to people. Especially since the nature of them are based around the topic of rape and sexual abuse I went through as a kid but unfortunately I am the bad guy in the images and thoughts.
When I first experienced these I went completely mad I ended up committing myself as I thought I was a danger to woman and children and just about everyone around me (I would like to add the only person I was ever a danger to was myself). I explained in the mental hospital I was experiencing intrusive thoughts people did not react well one so called professional nearly chucked me off the ward. They kept giving my meds which did not help and treated me like I was I threat which just fed into my negative state of mind. It continued to get worse and meds did fuck all. I tried to kill myself 4 or 5 times as I could not live with how intrusive thoughts made me feel. I eventually just learned to live with them. I think I read somewhere they were a reaction of the mind to being in a situation it did not want to be in. They have mostly died off over the years but can get bad from time to time. I try not to react to them in any way as this just seems to feed into a nightmare of a self feeding loop of nightmare type stuff. I have meet a few woman online who have had a very similar experience, it was nice to know I was not alone.
Well that was heavier then I intended anyway I described the blackout effect I experienced during the week to therapist. She described it as Dissociation I believe this is a defensive reaction of the mind to a situation it does not want to be in. I will have to read up on it as it happens to me now and then.
This post really is heavier than intended.
Still tipping away at yoga and odd run.
Take care of yourself
Keep up the good fight.✊🏻✊🏾
Maastricht Interview link